Ross Stafford

A lot of men find it hard to meet the perfect woman and go through extended periods of time without having a girl in their life. If you are one of these men you must spend a good deal of time wondering the reason why it's so complicated to get a girlfriend and be content like all these other guys out there that you observe with the superb woman in their arm.

The situation has to be really tough. Do you believe that you're just a victim of lousy luck and that is why Ms. Right has not showed up in your life to date? Or have you decided that maybe Ms. Wonderful merely lives on the movies and not out here in the real world? Bingo! You've got it. She does not exist anywhere except within your imagination and in cinema screens.

The truth of life is that the main reason why Ms. Perfect has not appeared has absolutely nothing to do with your good luck, good or poor, but everything to do with you and the fact that you simply are busy seeking an individual that does not exist. You can not go searching for women with your eyes closed and some impossible dream in your head. You are going to get so mixed up on this entire exercise of dating that you forget to check for the qualities you seek. You haven't met the woman of your dreams simply because you aren't searching for the things that could make them close enough to being suitable for you.

You might be so confident that each and every girl you've met couldn't provide you with exactly what you wanted. But what is it that you wanted in the first place? Once you're sure of what you want, you'll know exactly what to look for in your woman. Exactly what are the attributes that you feel are necessary in a person? What are the attributes you are prepared to make a sacrifice on? Have you analyzed all of these?

Keep in mind, that nobody on this planet is perfect. Everyone has their very own faults and some are bigger faults than others. Many are faults you can actually ignore and some are issues that you just couldn't ignore in your best day and if the girl was one of the most gorgeous, most sexy girl on earth.

Once you meet a woman, bear in mind, however hard you strive to impress other people, you cannot manage their thought processes. Rather, it's far better to focus on your own expectations and ambitions, and how much of what you need could be satisfied if you dated this woman.